Ambition is very important when it comes to success in life, but it’s not the only thing that matters. One thing that I’ve learned along the way is that life becomes a lot better when you have someone who shares your vision. I didn’t understand this when I was younger because I hadn’t met the right person yet. I hadn’t met my partner in life. I hadn’t gone through the bad experiences to get to the good. You ever hear the expression that it takes two to tango? It’s true, if you tried the tango by yourself you would look like a lunatic. More importantly. it takes having someone to walk along side you through the good times and the bad.
Okay, I’m sure most of the single people reading this (and some in a relationship) are like OF COURSE I WANT A LIFE PARTNER, DUH! But I’ve looked and searched and tried everything, I’ve exhausted every option, I can’t FIND the right person for me. I’m going to show you exactly what it is that you need to do in order to achieve this. It’s simple really, but most people don’t want to take the time to do it. You ready? WORK ON YOURSELF FIRST AND THE REST WILL FOLLOW. How can you find the right person for you if you’re not even the right person for yourself. You must first take time to work on yourself and getting your mindset right in order to find true love. If you want an independent partner that is going to be loyal to you, you better make damn sure you’re independent and loyal yourself. Do not ask of others, what you won’t ask of yourself. Knowledge of self is key before you can even attempt a shot at finding true love.
Lastly, I want to talk about friendship and more importantly having the right type of friendship. You see friendship, just like anything else, depends not on the quantity but the quality. You have to take careful notice and pay attention to the type of people you associate with on a daily basis. You are the average of the five people you are closest to so make sure they are top-notch. Hang around people who can help you grow and that challenge you, not people that are going to bring you down. This is infinitely important because you can only be as successful as the people you associate with. So strive to associate with people that are going to challenge you and push you to that next level. Stay away from people that give you negative energy, or negative people in general. Cut them out of your life, they are cancer and it will spread. Stay positive, stay focused, and keep your eyes on the goal and you will succeed.